Help me get back with my ex?

ok be prepared for an essay people....basically myself and my girlfriend ave been together for 9 months an our relationship was beautiful, ok we had ups and downs like any normal person but all in all the relationship was her first proper boyfriend as before me she was treated badly an the relationship usually only lasted a week an was more of a fasion accessory then it was love.....well i never got along with her family very well as they are extremely possesive, plus with me being a londener and them being scousers i was always going to get the rough end of the stick!..... so yhh i met this girl on a lads weekend in liverpool and carried on meeting her an eventually moved to wales to be with her (where she currently lives) was almost lyk a fairy tale, we spoke bout avin kids and gettin a house and everything was just so beautiful! then the s**t hit the fan....she had a big fight with her mum one day (her mum is a horrible horrible woman) an naturally left her house and came to my flat 10 minutes away.... well before you kno it i ave her nan and mum ringing my phone threatenin me that if i dont send her home im gna get beaten up bare in mind my girlfriend is 19 years of age an im 20..... anyway to avoid the aggro i sent her home cos i said its for the she went home an before u know it, her fones been taken off her an shes been grounded (grounded at 19...mental right), but my girlfriend just laid back an took it because they have mentally exhausted her so i done the smart thing an went to her college in the day to see her for half hour, for a week i travelled there an we talked bout how much we missed eachother and kissed etc etc an she spent the whole time tellin everybody in her class wot a lovly boyfriend she has an how much she missed me...... until the weekend when i tried callin her nans house phone an she hung up on me and said dont ring my nan will go mad.... fair enough!two days later i walk into college on our 9 month anniversary with a teddybear an chocolates etc really pleased to see her an she sorry i cant do this, my nan an mum have told me im never allowed out again until i finish with u an they wont buy me a car or give me any money to get new clothes an im not allowed to go and find a job until i leave u cos they think i will spend it on u....... of course i cried an so did she but then she ran indoors an i was left this is where it got real bad! ex hacked my email the same night an facebook an started uploadin crude pics of women and writing messages to make me look like a cheat (shes always been jealous of us), an as you can imagine my girlfriend rang me going crazy, for a whole week she didnt speak to me except turning up at my flat crying an drunk punchin me.... after a week i printscreened a convo between my ex and myself where my ex admitted she enjoyed makin it all up, so i emailed this to my girlfriend an she was really apologetic an said come back to wales (at this point id gone bak to london cos she told me she wanted me too)... of course i was over the moon an started arranging my return until later that day after she had been with her friends she changed her mind an said i dont want u back here im sorry, i dont wna be with u the trust has gone.... now its been a week an ive not heard from i kno inside she wants us back an she just feels trapped between family and her friends who do nothing but stir and stir....also its clearly obvious she would rather throw me away then admit to hundreds of people she was wrong about me (she got very vocal about me on facebook) an ive since found out se hasnt even told anybody that i proved my innocence in regards to the email thing.its disgusting isnt it to treat somebody like this but i really want her back cos i know this is other people that have caused this.....please somebody anybody help me out with some advice i dont wanna hear 'move on move on', i would move on if it was a normal breakup, but im not moving on when we should be togeter an we are being prevented by other me i feel so low :( i want her back so bad shes my soulmate.

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One Response to “Help me get back with my ex?”

  1. lyndy says:

    You want to get back with ex? I’m sure it’ll work great this time around…